Bench Setup not working with NBT Evo

[Tuerkay]

So just reconnect it to the car if you can't figure it out on the bench then do it in the car.  A few acrobatics in esys and that's all.

well that´s the main problem. i swapped around 6 times between car and bench.
Couldn´t get the unit out of flash mode or reactivate flashing over http/enet. On bench it won´t show up on esys and in car, it will only flash with UDS protocol (flashtime around 2-3 days).
i don´t have a garage and my car on my parking spot beside the street. Leaving my car unlocked, with a charger hooked up, my laptop inside while it´s raining/snowing here is risky in many ways... that´s why i want to get this fixed on bench